January 15th - Carla
It was Carla’s birthday on the 13th. I thought a good gift would be not  to talk to her, but I spent alot of time debating the merits of that. We  agreed that we both needed space, to grow, be ourselves and all that. I  think she must have been thinking about me too, she texted me on the  14th. She wanted to get some fabric, which seemed like a bit of a  non-emergency, but I called her and made plans for her to come by Sunday  night. It went well; We ate food, talked a great deal, set some  boundaries, dug through boxes of fabric, and shot this hugging video.  Luckily there were no overly emotional outbursts; I still love her, but  in a way that seems like it hurts less to not be with her. I think we  are getting our divorce in March.

January 15th - Carla

It was Carla’s birthday on the 13th. I thought a good gift would be not to talk to her, but I spent alot of time debating the merits of that. We agreed that we both needed space, to grow, be ourselves and all that. I think she must have been thinking about me too, she texted me on the 14th. She wanted to get some fabric, which seemed like a bit of a non-emergency, but I called her and made plans for her to come by Sunday night. It went well; We ate food, talked a great deal, set some boundaries, dug through boxes of fabric, and shot this hugging video. Luckily there were no overly emotional outbursts; I still love her, but in a way that seems like it hurts less to not be with her. I think we are getting our divorce in March.

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Posted on Monday, 23 January
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    In January, I am trying to hug or exchange intimacy with a person every day. I was gonna bring it up earlier… but I...
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